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Who, What & How We Help

Relational From the Start

What We Help

Relationship Growth & Transformation

Transformational Healing and Growth   
Our customized Couples Relational Healing intensives use our We-ness® model to help you reach the intimacy-building milestones of commitment, connection, collaboration and creation of your coupleship - together.



 
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In our experience, intimacy avoidance and anorexia are part of an Intimacy Aversion continuum, positioned at one end of that spectrum. Intimacy Avoidance and Intimacy Anorexia can overlap and can be hard to differentiate. This overlap happens when an avoidant individual has developed a conscious understanding of what they are doing (no more denial) but either do not, or cannot, change the behavior and

Why, then, do we use "Averse" vs "Adverse?" Really, it's a matter of most folk's comfort with grammar: While "Adversity" indicates a difficulty with something and "Aversion" can have strong mental-health implications and feels quite absolute (in fact,

 

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Interviews

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Interviews

Interviews

Get in Sync 

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Come Home
To You

We’ll help you recognize moments and crossroads where you can make your needs an important priority, becoming your own

best friend, advocate and hero.

Re-Coupling©

"Making your coupleship a priority is not complicated...
People who come to us have complex lives that we help simplify or clarify through a relational perspective"

Betrayal Trauma

 

 

 

Betrayal is Trauma.

 

Worse still, it is two distinct types of trauma:

Compound/Complex and Shock trauma.

 

This means that betrayal, and all the behaviors that have accompanied it over time, has caused a cumulative relational trauma that has undermined your vision, understanding and belief in what it means to be coupled with your partner and insidiously eroded your sense of self-knowing.

 

          Your discovery of your partners betrayal(s) was an immediate, sudden, completely unexpected, and world-destroying impact that leveled you and any sense of anything in your world - even bringing into doubt all you've known and believed that made your world solid, reliable, secure... SAFE.

 

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CORE-RECO

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Betrayal Trauma

Betrayal is Trauma.

 

Worse still, it is two distinct types of trauma:

Compound/Complex and Shock trauma.

 

This means that betrayal, and all the behaviors that have accompanied it over time, has caused a cumulative relational trauma that has undermined your vision, understanding and belief in what it means to be coupled with your partner and insidiously eroded your sense of self-knowing.

 

          Your discovery of your partners betrayal(s) was an immediate, sudden, completely unexpected, and world-destroying impact that leveled you and any sense of anything in your world - even bringing into doubt all you've known and believed that made your world solid, reliable, secure... SAFE.

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Get The Whole Enchilada

Anytime, Anywhere

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Reach the Pinnacle

All that we offer...

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Four Seasons

From Chaos

to Reason

Anytime, Anywhere

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YOUR

DREAMS
 

OF THIS 

ARE MADE 

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Our Difference